Be Positive Be Optimistic


Be Positive Be Optimistic

I would like to dedicate this post to Meghan Silva - as what we think about is the inspiration behind this post.

If you've read my post titled Kaftan you will know that I have not been keeping well and one of the main issue was work.

The last couple of months, I have been so miserable and full of negative energy. I've become so lazy that my answer to every question is NO. I cannot do this, I don't want to do this, this is not for me, complaining about everything that is going on in my life. Even the smallest things would be blown out of proportion. 

But I wasn't like this. I've always had the "Can Do attitude". If I didn't know how to do things I was eager to learn. The determination and enthusiasm was there. I thrived under pressure and enjoyed challenges. 
Now, it is all the opposite, I just collapse.

Instead of being grateful for the things I have, I am concentrating on things I don't have and start sulking and moaning.

One of the things I should be grateful for is that i have a Job. There are so many people in UK alone who are unemployed and has gone into depression.

I have roof over my head, food to eat and clothes to cover my body. These might be basic things but there are millions who don't even have that.

Something good always comes out of a bad situation. We just have to keep our eyes open. Rather than concentrating on what's gone wrong, we should be positive and think of how we can improve the current situation 

If one door closes another will open. Good and Bad follows each other same as the Sun and the Moon.

"When you're knocked down, look up and find solace in the fact that it can only get better from here".

No matter what comes your way, be strong, deal with the situation, and don't let that smile fade away from your face.

Enjoy the rest of the weekend peeps and don't forget............KEEP SMILING :)

A big thank you to Meghan for being such an inspiration.

64 comments:

  1. Thanks for your honesty! I made the experience by myself that such situations in each life are really necessary because it looks like that we should know both sides of our life (the good and the bad one) to find our own midth. So I wish you all the power and time you need to learn what is really important for you - and after this im sure you will much more you than before your actual situation <3

    And how great that you know the things for which you can be thankful ...

    xoxo Rena from Bavaria in Germany

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    1. Many thanks for your nice comment, dear <3

      xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

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    2. Thank you so much Rena, much love xx

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  2. Keeping positive with your head up its the key to continue.
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  4. Keep smiling dear. Don't worry, everything will be alright... :)
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  6. this happens to me too from time to time. i hope you are feeling better now :)

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    1. Felling lot better Shayne, Thank you. xx

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    2. Oops!! I meant feeling, lol

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    3. ^^ im glad to hear that :)

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  7. Keep smiling too (: and have a lovely week ahead of you! Get well soon for your falling ankle or leg! Thanks for commenting on my blog (': xx

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  8. you are rignt we need to be positive all the time !!!!!!!!
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    1. Stay Positive Be Optimistic :D
      Keep smiling xx

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  9. What a Beautiful Post!:)

    Negativity Does Hovers Around Each person But it's Important To Not Make it a Long Staying Guest!

    Hope You Are in a Good Space Now :)

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    1. Thanks Heena. Feeling a lot better.

      xx

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  11. Great post. I recognize this. There was a time, I think it was a year or two ago, that I just felt so miserable. I could only focus on what was wrong and missing in my life, and I was moody and cranky all the time. In the end I threw my life over, quit my job and started a whole new carreer. Now I realize that I should have done that way sooner. Never again will I let myself be dragged down into a vicious circle of depression and negativity again!

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    1. Depression is the worst killer of all, been there and it is not a very nice feeling.

      Keep your chin up and get rid of the negativity around you.

      Its never too late, keep smiling:)

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  15. Sorry that negativity has been consuming you lately! It can be so hard to get out of that mindset when it comes on. Just try to stay positive and remember you cannot always control situations around you, but you control how you react and real with them. Happiness is a choice. Keep your chin up.

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  17. Yes, definitely stay positive. Hope and gratitude helps and gives us a reason to not dwell on negativity or our current state. Hang in there, we all go through times such as these and tribulations in life. i agree, food and shelter is much to be thankful for. :) /Madison

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  19. I can relate. I was so depressed when I was unemployed so even though my job is somewhat stressful, I am so greatly for the opportunity.

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    1. All the best with your job Imogen xx

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  20. Hey hey, I'm glad you liked it I'm in the beginning but already addicted to this world of the blogs!! And Preppy Lemonade is already on Bloglovin (http://www.bloglovin.com/blog/9725179/preppy-lemonade) stay tuned and follow the blog so you can be updated with all my little news and surprises!! Hope to hear from you soon!!

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  21. be positive is the secret of the life.. for a good quality of life.. nice post sweety. if you want come to visit my blog...we can follow each other. many kisses

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  22. I love every single word you wrote. What an inspirational post girl, I'm glad that you're feeling better now :)
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    1. Thank you so much Monica, much love xx

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  23. I love this post and its true! Things can only get better! Positivity is key for the soul and health!

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  25. Thank you for your sharing,be positive is so important I think.

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  26. I sincerely agree with this. I felt depressed a couple of weeks ago too and I eventually realized it was my perspective that needed to change. I think we just get caught up with the negative stuff that we fail appreciate the things we should be grateful for <3

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    1. Totally agree with you Angel. I've done that so many times but it's time for a change. It is definitely not easy but totally worth it.

      xx

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  27. Just saw your comment , wow this is so awesome thank you for the mention and dedication, I'm glad I could lift your spirits in some way, I am also so happy to see you are looking on the brighter side of things, its always so surprising to me to see how my day changes when I focus on something positive instead of what is going wrong and from your latest post I can see the difference in your mind frame. You seem a whole lot happier and that beautiful to see. I hope you having an amazing start to the week. You missy have just made my night.

    Sending you tons of love.

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    1. hehehe....glad you like it. Things are still pretty tough but i am smiling. Thanks darl xx

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